Shame-Fear-Control Stronghold

Authors: Chester and Betsy Kylstra

The Lord's revelation of the way that the strongholds of Shame, Fear, and Control (SFC) work together as one stronghold is among the most profound understandings that we have received in our years of ministering freedom and healing to the Body of Christ. In order to quickly spread this revelation, we have released this basic teaching on two tapes including the handouts/overheads. We will put it into book form at a later date.

Shame, as differentiated from guilt, is that awful sense of "being uniquely and hopelessly flawed." Like rejection, it is a common malady for many of us as we have accepted the lie that "this is who I am," that our core personhood is one of Shame. This is the worst kind of Ungodly Belief, a false belief about our identity. As we attempt to cope with the unthinkable belief that we are "uniquely and hopelessly flawed," we unintentionally give place to Fear, amplifying our human fear: "What if they find out?!" (and then we will really be in trouble!) This opens the door for Control, with its false promise of protection and cover-up so that no one will ever find out how different (bad) we really are.

In this teaching, we discuss the various ways that the SFC stronghold manifests. Some people are laid back and use passivity as their means of Control to cover their Shame and lack of engagment with life, while others are more assertive and forceful, bulldozing over everyone else, so that no one dare raise the question about the possibility of Shame.

We have two hours of teaching on the tapes, plus an hour of ministry. The most important part of the teaching is showing how to expose the lies of the counterfeit identity and to work with the Holy Spirit as He gives us a strategy for each individual that allows us to dissemble and demolish the strongholds. We apply the Restoring the Foundations (RTF) Integrated Approach to ministry to accomplish this. We also recorded the ministry to the people present (for the teaching). This ministry demonstrates the Integrated Approach. If you participate with the Holy Spirit as you listen to these tapes, He will also minister freedom and healing to you just as He did to the group of people present during the recording.



For additional information about the Shame-Fear-Control Stronghold tape series, or any of our other resources, or to order, please contact Proclaiming His Word.