Authors: Chester and Betsy Kylstra
The Lord's revelation of the way that the strongholds of Shame,
Fear, and Control (SFC) work together as one stronghold is
among the most profound understandings that we have received in
our years of ministering freedom and healing to the Body of
Christ. In order to quickly spread this revelation, we have
released this basic teaching on two tapes including the
handouts/overheads. We will put it into book form at a later
date.
Shame, as differentiated from guilt, is that
awful sense of "being uniquely and hopelessly flawed."
Like rejection, it is a common malady for many of us as we have
accepted the lie that "this is who I am," that our core
personhood is one of Shame. This is the worst kind of Ungodly Belief, a false belief about
our identity. As we attempt to cope with the unthinkable belief
that we are "uniquely and hopelessly flawed," we
unintentionally give place to Fear, amplifying our human
fear: "What if they find out?!" (and then we will
really be in trouble!) This opens the door for Control,
with its false promise of protection and cover-up so that no one
will ever find out how different (bad) we really are.
In this teaching, we discuss the various ways that the SFC
stronghold manifests. Some people are laid back and use passivity
as their means of Control to cover their Shame and
lack of engagment with life, while others are more assertive and
forceful, bulldozing over everyone else, so that no one dare
raise the question about the possibility of Shame.
We have two hours of teaching on the tapes, plus an hour of
ministry. The most important part of the teaching is showing how
to expose the lies of the counterfeit identity and to work with
the Holy Spirit as He gives us a strategy for each individual
that allows us to dissemble and demolish the strongholds. We
apply the Restoring the Foundations (RTF) Integrated Approach to ministry to
accomplish this. We also recorded the ministry to the people
present (for the teaching). This ministry demonstrates the
Integrated Approach. If you participate with the Holy Spirit as
you listen to these tapes, He will also minister freedom and
healing to you just as He did to the group of people present
during the recording.
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